Falling in love with a Fantasy

The concept of girls can be so easy to fall in love with

What they could do for you

What they could represent

Who this new one could be

And how she could act

How good the sex could feel

The illusions get built up in our heads

And this can become an addictive cycle

Because reality could never live up to fantasy

So once the fantasy is burst

It’s time to move onto the next

A world lived in our heads is so much easier than a world lived in reality

So why would you ever want to live in reality?

The reality of making it happen

It’s funny how for a long time along my journey, I had just been waiting for that Hollywood-like click to take place where all of a sudden everything works and a radical mental shift takes place.  But that’s not how it works, and that’s not how it happens at all.

In reality, it really is the little by little steps that you take and the hard work that you put in that make it happen, and to sit around waiting for that one special moment is foolish, since you could end up waiting a lifetime.